1. Never waste your time comparing yourself to anyone else. There are hundreds of other people who will provide this service free of charge.
2. Don’t get depressed about not being where you want to be. This nagging feeling of anxiety is actually called ambition. Ambition is your friend.
3. Nothing will ever turn out the way you want it to. It may be better. It may be worse. It will never be exactly what you imagined.
4. You do not have an actor until they are physically in front of your camera, speaking the dialogue you have written. Until this moment, their attachment to your project is illusory.
5. The greatest satisfaction is growing with a team of people you trust. Your DP, production designer, costume designer, editor, composer and other key crew are like flesh and blood.
6. Assuming Rule #5, it is imperative to remember that it’s the actor who is expected to create something truly magical on the set. Under enormous pressure, they are required to completely transform themselves. Protect their unique artistry.
7. Everyone has an agenda.
8. Carefully harness these disparate and often conflicting agendas with your own ambition. This is a lot harder than it sounds.
9. Film directing is a strange and neurotically-inspired vocation. It sometimes involves coaxing and/or manipulating people to do things they wouldn’t consider doing otherwise.
10. Choose people to work with who understand and deeply respect the perversity of Rule #9